You need to have a LONG talk with her.
She needs to respect that she is married.
Now if you're cool with it, that's one thing,
but it doesn't sound like you are.
She needs to understand that she is commited to you,
otherwise everything is in name only.
You can't play around with this.
There are emotional & legal implications.
Marriage is not a game.
And she can't be betraying your trust, it doesn't matter if it's with a man or a woman.
You've got to get this out now, before it goes further & festers.
I hope it goes well.
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