darksparkles - niether had I! In fact it was three doctors before one of them seemed to have a clue.
Went into surgery last sunday night (pain got to much over the weekend, by passed the process of seeing an ob-gyn and went through the emergency ward). They cut a hole in the cyst and stitched it open so that it will heal outwards (process called marsupialisation).
Thanks Plummie - still feels like I'm pissing razorblades still but hopefully won't ever re-occur again

- and I got the week off work!