Something else to think about.
With one child, one parent parents while the other does his/her own thing. With the addition of the second child, both parents are caught in the full court kiddy press 24/7.
I thought the addition of the second child to the family was a bigger shock to my system than either the first or the third. Word is after 4, each extra child is basically no extra work. It is impossible to do any more. So you do all you can and get by.
Thanks for listening.
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