nikki... the reason so many people "act out" (putting it nicely) and go gaga over random chicks they've never met or seen save for a picture or three on some online bulletin board is twofold:
first, they're separated from reality online. they have an opputunity to say/do/be anything they want to without the stare of cold, hard reality beating them back into their feeble little shells. they have a false bravado that enables them to go out on a limb and say these things, act on their most base desires because there's no real accountability for their actions.
second, most of the people who lose their heads over random women on a bulletin board are immature, as far as their sexual development is concerned. they probably don't really know what they want in life. most likely they've never had meaningful relationships. it's like being back in junior high, it's all talk with no real experience to back it up.
basically, these people are just as you accuse them of being. shallow, ill mannered ilk. the problem is that they're everywhere, it's very hard to avoid them. the most you can possibly do is ignore them, recognise and discount their statements as quickly as possible , and move on. we can filter out alot of people, but there's no getting past these.
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