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Originally posted by *Nikki*
This is about how we each perceive physical beauty and how importent it is to each of us.
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Being male, I perceive things a bit differently from the way a woman will.
I'll tell you straight out: if I've got a problem with how you look, if your looks make me ill, we'll never get beyond "Hi". If I meet you on-line first,
then meet you in person, looks matter somewhat less, but they're still going to matter until I'm used to having you around.
That's real, whether you or I like it or not. I speak from experience.
I've also been told by multiple women that it takes a while to get to know me, like up to around a year. Most women don't give me anything like that kind of time, and once they
do, I'm firmly in the "friend" zone.