Looks are important in the beginning but personality is what is important long term. It doesn’t matter how physically beautiful someone is, if you cant stand their personality you wont continue to hang out with them. Likewise, have you ever met someone you didn’t find attractive but after you got to know them they started to look better and better, almost as if they were physically more beautiful but you know there appearance hasn’t changed?
I think the reason we seem to put so much value on physical beauty is because that is what is spoken about so much. And, I think the reason that it is spoken about more than the beauty inside is because there is a more universal idea of what is physically beautiful while peoples ideas of what is beautiful on the inside vary more widely.
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