I guess it depends what the reasoning is. Moral? Religious?
Sex and physical contact has always played a major role in all of my previous and current relationships, so I'm sure that I couldn't wait until marriage. Sex plays a major role in most long term relationships. How can you really know that you're compatible with a person without taking it to that level of intimacy???
When a girlfriend proposes waiting until marriage, it might make you marry her more hastily then you would otherwise, which is most likely a bad thing.
If it's safe sex, consentual, and you have real feelings for the person, why wait????
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