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This isn't something that I've thoroughly explored yet, but the most important thing that I've learned is that I need to feel comforted and understood about whatever we try for the first time. If I don't have peace of mind about it, then I'm not comfortable with getting too rough, and that ruins whatever pleasure I might get out of it. Other things that usually concern me are the risk factors involved, and there's nothing worse than regret. I do find it exciting to be restrained and bound, and especially spanked and scratched, but only if it's with someone I trust -- otherwise, it becomes a very negative experience for me, and there's no point in getting rough if it's not going to be enjoyable in some way.
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"inhuman fiery goat worship" is an anagram for "information superhighway" -kingvolc
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