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dod123 · 07-30-2003, 10:06 AM

Anyway, i'd like to see if anyone else has anymore experiences that might relate to mine, but an update. My gf is really fed up with the guy, and so she wrote a letter (i have not yet read, don't know if i intend to) to Nicole that i imagine, tells it to her straight. Basically, that she REALLY doesn't like Bob, and doesn't want him to come over anymore, and that it would be much better if we only saw him on a social basis and not as if he lives here too. I'm not sure how well this will go over, and i'm slightly afraid it will turn real ugly real fast. In my experience with girls and their bfs... well, it's never good to say bad things about the bf. They get offended because 1. often they can be defensive and 2. sometimes they take it as a personal insult in their taste in men. On the flip side, who knows... maybe she'll get the point.

07-30-2003, 10:06 AM	#11 (permalink)
dod123 Upright Location: US	Anyway, i'd like to see if anyone else has anymore experiences that might relate to mine, but an update. My gf is really fed up with the guy, and so she wrote a letter (i have not yet read, don't know if i intend to) to Nicole that i imagine, tells it to her straight. Basically, that she REALLY doesn't like Bob, and doesn't want him to come over anymore, and that it would be much better if we only saw him on a social basis and not as if he lives here too. I'm not sure how well this will go over, and i'm slightly afraid it will turn real ugly real fast. In my experience with girls and their bfs... well, it's never good to say bad things about the bf. They get offended because 1. often they can be defensive and 2. sometimes they take it as a personal insult in their taste in men. On the flip side, who knows... maybe she'll get the point. __________________ "I may be newb, but at least i'm not stupid O.o"