I've said no kids ever since I started having sex. Heck i almost considered storing some of the baby-batter and getting a vasectomy at 21. Try to find a urologist who'll do that.
But anyways - Now i'm 23. I think that someday I may want to have kids, but I just don't think the woman that i'm in a long term relationship is the one for it. Between her health issues, family issues and workaholic nature, I really don't think I'd be fair to my future, if any, children. Tough situation because I've been with her for quite a while, i know she wants to have children eventually, and I just keep saying no.
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