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Originally posted by Holo
Be a bit more aggressive and unavailable. Nobody chases a legless cat. Make yourself interesting by not being available as often. Also, women put you in the friend zone if you lack confidence. A woman expects a man to act like one...confidence is the #1 thing a woman expects from a male. Women make friend out of guys that don't fit their idea of a bf..and generally that means the "too nice" guy.
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OK, I agree with half of this. Most women like strong (emotionally strong) aggressive men who can control their aggression.
Be confident. If you can't *be* confident, fake it. Don't "ask" her out, "tell" her you want to go out with her.
e.g. "Let's go to Luigi's next Thursday... We'll have a nice dinner, go to the lakefront (or ocean front or some other romantic place) and enjoy each other's company."
BTW: there's nothing wrong with dating a friend. Most really happy married couples started as friends.