My husband actually knows my cycle better than I do. I'm not on the pill and I'm not all that regular (28 - 34 days or so). However, somehow he knows a few days ahead of time when I'm going to start.
The first time I knew about it was after we'd been married for a year or two. He postponed a "night out" a few days ahead of time. We were going to go out to dinner on a Friday. The Tuesday before, he said we should wait until after the weekend.
I asked why and he looked at me funny. After a moment he said, "So it'll be after 'that time of the month'." I got annoyed and told him that I didn't know exactly when it would be so we might as well keep the reservation just in case I was late.
He got that *damn* "knowing smile" and said, "I'll make a reservation for next Wednesday". Sure enough, I started on Thursday and it was over on Sunday. By Wednesday, I was the proverbial putty in his hands. I wanted to be pissed at him but it didn't matter. I loved the evening and "got it good" that night.
He won't tell me how he knows. I don't think he even knows how he knows, but he's pretty good at it. Sometimes it's annoying being so predictable but most of the time it's nice knowing that he's scheduling around me.
I don't even notice it most of the time but sometimes I'll realize that he has something fun scheduled on "day 14" or that he's more attentive a day or two before my period.
Last edited by angela146; 07-29-2003 at 08:01 PM..
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