All good and valid opinions. Thanks for sharing your situation as well shay, and that type of outcome is exactly what i do not want. And no lurkette, i don't think you're rude at all. I expected at least someone to voice that opinion regardless. Air45, if you're implying i should hit on him... you're a d@Mn genius, but... not my style
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OH, and thanks for moving the post phred, i wasn't paying attention to where i was posting it <=== newb
Fortunately enough, my life ISN'T a living hell... yet... but Nicole is so nice, that i'd hate to see it go that way. And to yes, bob does not pay rent...
Actually, i have told Nicole that Bob's being there too much is an issue, but i suppose i'll just have to reiterate it a few more times. The three of us are quite good friends now, and the situtation is better or worse on any given week. Thanks for the responses so far, if i can think of anything valid to add i will, i suppose, i'll just have to keep talking and working on the whole thing slowly.