i think so, although i haven't had an experience quite like that. i enjoy the feeling of being pinned/restrained, feeling someone else's strength, and having the trust to know nothing bad will come of it, but my boyfriend hasn't ever really pushed the limits of allowable. he's been easing me towards anal recently, but he's SOOO patient, there's no rush, no pressure... I don't think HE likes being forceful, so... :shrug: I like pushing GENTLY on my boundaries, and his. But, I definately am with you about making him happy. I hope you got some kick-ass oral as payment, though
