Welcome to the reality of real love.
It doesn't care if the person is fat or skinny, it focuses on what they really are.
Truthfully, you've learned a painful lesson my friend, and it will be hard to undo the damage, but it can be done, if you are willing to take the time and patience to do so.
You will have to start by confessing all of you've said here to your love, and then constantly reassure her of her beauty and your desire of her. One little off comment regarding her weight from you, real or even percieved by her and you're back at square one.
I wish you both the best of luck.
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"Of all tyrannies, a tyranny exercised for the good of its victims may be the most oppressive. It may be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron's cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end, for they do so with the approval of their own conscience." – C. S. Lewis
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