[b]Note: I sign my name two ways when I type. –Z if it is a normal or philosophil post and –Lynn when I am in a passionate, real mood.
And yes my name IS Lynn and I am a dude!
Hmm. What is exactly is love? I know it is a clichéd, beat down into the dirt, rhetoric question since man’s crush on a woman or vice versa. (unless you’re a sheep fucker….. anyway)
To me love is many, many things.
So. Let me explain my love in general, then the deeper.
To me, love is:
A baby parrot or puppy walking over to you and cuddles up silently saying ‘daddy!’.
Love is when my nephew
pissed me the fuck off, and then smiled at me. He is autistic-savant, Rain Man style and its like god told me “He doesn’t understand.’ And I felt so shamed. He gave me a beautiful pure innocent smile as if to say ‘I dunno what your problem is but I love you.’
Love is the guy who goes out of his way to help strangers because he can.
Love is somehow gentle, sharp, cruel, and cold. True love can hurt because you may be making a dreadful err and someone loves you so much they risk your wrath to open your eyes.
Love is everywhere… we’ve let go way too much. It depresses me.
……
now. Love as in boy and girl (or whatever your lifestyle deems) is when your soul connects. You know love when you’ve been single for decades and frown at the empty bed, leaving you hollow; your mind lingers on ‘her’.
You know love when your soul mate’s music makes you wish a plane would crash if only to knock out the noise a few hours but you tolerate it and are not bitter.
Love is what I seek and pray to never abuse. But it is worth the wait.
… yes. I think that sums up what love is to me on a very simple bases.
-lynn