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I think it would be best to not act but to remain faithful to your husband. Maybe you could be one of the lucky ones, but I have seen a few friends relationships and friendships get destroyed because they acted upon impulse and decided to experiment and open up their marriages to others.
Marriage should be shared between two people only and there are many ways to explore and experiment with each other that would be just as fully satisfying as it would be to bring someone else into the relationship.
Most often I've seen the resentment and bitterness that comes from this. Everything starts out fine, everyone is willing to try this out but then someone always ends up getting hurt, jealous or angry. IMHO, it wouldn't be worth risking such a long marriage over one fantasy. In the end though, it's totally up to you what road you will choose. Good luck with the decision you make.
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