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Donkeypuncher · 07-12-2003, 12:57 PM

As with all things involving another person, talk to her about it. Express your concerns. Go over all of it with your husband, too.

Even if you do all that, things might get weird afterwards, but if you've talked it out and everyone's ok beforehand, the likelihood is pretty low that it'll really go south. If anything feels funny afterwards, just say so and don't do it again - no harm, no foul.

Of course it'll change relationships. All experiences that we share with someone else, by nature, do that. That said, it doesn't have to be a bad change. Maybe it doesn't work out for whatever reason, but if we're all adults here, it doesn't mean you can't look each other in the eye later, or even laugh about it. ("hey, remember that time I ate you out? How weird was THAT?? haha") I think most of us have ex's in our lives and it doesn't have to be weird at all... it's just a shared history.

Will you have to be "out"? That's entirely up to you and those concerns should be expressed beforehand as well.

Above all, have fun. =)

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Donkeypuncher Psycho Location: Pasadena, CA	As with all things involving another person, talk to her about it. Express your concerns. Go over all of it with your husband, too. Even if you do all that, things might get weird afterwards, but if you've talked it out and everyone's ok beforehand, the likelihood is pretty low that it'll really go south. If anything feels funny afterwards, just say so and don't do it again - no harm, no foul. Of course it'll change relationships. All experiences that we share with someone else, by nature, do that. That said, it doesn't have to be a bad change. Maybe it doesn't work out for whatever reason, but if we're all adults here, it doesn't mean you can't look each other in the eye later, or even laugh about it. ("hey, remember that time I ate you out? How weird was THAT?? haha") I think most of us have ex's in our lives and it doesn't have to be weird at all... it's just a shared history. Will you have to be "out"? That's entirely up to you and those concerns should be expressed beforehand as well. Above all, have fun. =) __________________ "take me down, little Susie, take me down I know you think you're the Queen of The Underground" Last edited by Donkeypuncher; 07-14-2003 at 11:37 AM..