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Originally posted by Donkeypuncher
The bottom line is that cheating is defined uniquely by every couple. ...what really matters is that everyone is in agreement about what's going on. If one person in a relationship is doing something that makes the other uncomfortable, it's not ok. Regardless of what anyone else's defintions are. It doesn't have to get any more complicated than that. It's about respecting the needs and boundaries of your partner.
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Donkeypuncher should get some sort of award for this reply. It is absolutely right on the money.
What is acceptable for both of you is acceptable. What isn't...isn't. YOU (the couple) define what is and is not cheating. In your case, it sounds like cybering is cheating.