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I did it once. It was cool. But I wasn't dating either girl at the time, and have since lost contact with both. As to how it would be with someone you ARE involved with? I don't know... think of the double standard though. You want to invite another girl into your bed with you and your gf, and want her to understand and go along with it (basically fuck her and another girl) but if she suggests inviting another guy, you're against it. Many men in here (including me) would share that point of view, but think about how that looks from her side. It's like you're asking her to allow you to go outside your relationship for sex, (even if she's there and consents) but she can't enjoy that same feeling of exploration and fantasy (even if you're there).
Hey man, most guys chase that dream all their lives and never catch it. Those who do many times end up wishing they never did. As to your first question, you have to decide what your true feelings are for this girl. If you don't feel the ABSOLUTE commitment to her, then you should break up with her BEFORE acting on your 5-year itch. After 5 years, you owe her that much.
-Mikey
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