All good advice it seems. I guess I'll see what works. The thing is, I'm a musician, I have no problem meeting girls or anything. I don't get it how I can get up on stage and play and sing my heart out, but I get nervous a lot when I want to ask a girl out. I guess I've done it so seldom, I am just inexperienced. Probably also a couple "rejections" are just causing doubt in the back of my head.
When I ask someone out, I absolutely don't want give the impression that I'm some loser that just wants to get laid, but I feel at least on one occasion that's how I made myself out to be. It's truly not that. I just want a good steady relationship - someone to do stuff with, maybe I just haven't looking in the right spots, who knows... I'm moving to Manhattan in a few months, perhaps that should help my chances.
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