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this is quite embarrasing to ask... my girl and i are both first timers and we've tried to do it now a couple of times... the problem however seems to be that it just wont go in... she says it's too big, but it's not... every time i get her worked up good and when i try to go in, it wont... she says it hurts a lot... i know she expects it to hurt coz of things she heard and i imagine because of that she cant relax and let me in... but there are might be other reason that i cant think of...

i'd try traditional methods of relaxation but she doesnt smoke nor drink...

what do you think i should do and how to go about it?

thank you so much for your any advice!