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My problem can not be that common, I am an 18 year old male, i have a pretty attractive girlfriend, and i cant keep it up for more than a minute. I will be kissing her, and hard, but once she takes control, or the action stops, instant mushroom. Also, she cant give me a handjob, or oral sex. Basically, the only thing i can do is fuck her, and not stop. I havent tried viagra, im to embarrased to.

. I dont know what to think, i mean, nothign seems to work, we've tried lotions and shit, little knock off pills at a sex store, but it doesnt work. Also, i'm not really that sensitive down there, when she goes down, it doesnt feel like anything is happening, basically, my dick is about as sensative as my arm. I can masturbate, and orgasm, but i dunno, im just not very sensative down there. Sex works and all, only reason is, is like masturbation, its constant stimulation, everywhere, and i control where/what im doing.
To answer what some might say, its not a control thing, as sex w/ her on top is fine, but other than that, it just doesnt work.
Cliffnotes. 18 year old male cant get it up for a blow/hand job, and doesnt have much feeling down there.
Any help you guys could offer would be great. Sorry for being so explicit about everything, any clarification/questions, just ask, im a open book..