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DEFINITELY don't go behind her back. Bad bad bad bad bad. I'd say if you're dying to know, just ask her. But if you can live with not knowing, except for health reasons, leave it be. When the time comes to talk about possible sexual safety issues, just ask if she's been safe and/or been tested (being sure to divulge your own er, status) and leave it at that. If she wants to tell you about past relationships it'll come up naturally. Plus, who wants all those other people in the relationship with you? No fun to compare yourself to past lovers.
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