I have not said that it makes men "bad," Jazz. In fact, I think I have gone out of my way to let you all know that I don't think it's "bad." I don't know what else I can say. The party line effect, I believe, is skewing the conversation.
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Most people go through life dreading they'll have a traumatic experience. Freaks were born with their trauma. They've already passed their test in life. They're aristocrats. - Diane Arbus
PESSIMISM, n. A philosophy forced upon the convictions of the observer by the disheartening prevalence of the optimist with his scarecrow hope and his unsightly smile. - Ambrose Bierce
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