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Originally Posted by floe206
Very good advice, but again..I'm looking just like you..That's why I feel out of place because I can't quite find my "love" If I haven't found that thing that just clicks, will I ever?
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If I may say, the one thing that girls always look for in a guy, but seldom find, is his ability to listen to what they are saying. This quality is seldom appreciated from a guy's point of view. After all, they are always trying to make a good impression - never knowing that the art of listening to another is the best impression that any guy can make.
I suspect that this is because few guys are instructed on how to listen to another person when they are speaking. When girls talk they speak about much more than the words they are selecting on any given subject. There is always an implied feeling being expressed. A guy who can tune into that level of communication will be noticed - and liked a lot - if they are sincerely interested in that expanded conversation.
Now 23 is quite young by my standards, I am 68 years old. The confidence in self is well established. I was not confident when I was 23, or even 33 for that matter.
I hope these insights are helpful.
John