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Let me get this straight:
You have shown that you are uncomfortable stating explicitly your interest in oral sex, and instead have chosen to ambiguously describe this action as "fun."
You have asked an anonymous group of strangers if it is an acceptable course of action to have oral sex with someone you know.
You do not bother to mention any details that would assist us in reaching an educated decision on the matter. Therefore, everyone responds with a general "yes."
What makes this person a not-so-close friend? How do you distinguish this relationship from an acquaintance? Would you like this experience of "fun" to develop into something more substantial, or are you planning on it being a one-time deal that includes loss of said not-so-close friend at its conclusion?
Are you concerned about the reaction of mutual friends, or others in your social sphere? Do you need to interact with this person at work or another professional venue? Are you concerned with the social or political implications of your "fun?"
This thread demands more substance.
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