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She cheated, she says she's sorry. I still love her
I have been with my fiancé for almost three years now, right now we live far from each other. I proposed to her this January and we were due to get married in August. I had recently found inconsistencies in her behaviour and tried talking to her. She always said all is fine. I suspected one of her lecturers (she's a vocational student), but had no proof so I kept my peace. 4 days ago I intercepted a facebook message between her and this lecturer guy. It was really horrible.
I confronted her and asked her about the guy, she said she had nothing with him. I then told her I knew and she broke down crying. She said she was sorry, that she's been too mean to me. She said it happened way back in Aug. last year and that it's over. That she's been wanting to tell me, but was afraid of my reaction. She said she planned to tell me when I return in July. She really seems sorry, I still love her. The thought of another guy touching her makes me sick. I'm really confused. Forgive her (but call of the marriage) and fix the relationship OR just dump her.
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