Florida: Here's a list of the cities in which I've patronized some strip clubs
Cocoa Beach -- touch everything but the breast and Vagina
Miami -- Touch everything but the Vagina (unless the dancer moves your hands there indicating permission)
Tampa -- Same as Miami
Port Richey -- Nothing goes inside the dancers
Gainesville -- Hands behind your head, no touching
It's usually a good idea to do one of the following:
1.) ask the entertainer what her dances are like and what's allowed (as every dancer will have her own set of rules)
OR
2.) Simply allow the dancer to move your hands to where it's okay to touch.
A warning for the newcomers to the Florida club scene: Because touching is allowed in almost every club, there will always be dancers who want to push the rules in order to get an edge up on the competition. If that's okay with you, great. If, like me, you're grossed out by the idea of women performing sexual acts on other men right before bringing her mouth anywhere near you, then it's best to get a feel for the dancer before you go back with her.