My last 3 docs have been women, one was gorgeous. Trust me, when a gorgeous woman is handling your junk like it's so much liver, you don't get too excited (like not at all). And for some exams, women are much better... their hands are smaller
On the other hand, male or female, the last thing you want to hear at that moment is "Ooops!!" (that was a male, a good friend of mine).