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Originally Posted by ralphie250
you all have great ideas.
james t kirk, sorry man but i have no intentions of leaving my wife. i love her too much given the facts. not going to get a hooker cause i dont want a disease or to go to jail. (just one want to take the chances)
i have started trying to eat better and watch how much i eat. even if not for sex but for myself and my daughter.
if we have a vanilla sex life then thats what it is. it could be worse.
chumley, you're right her chasing a 3 year old all day can be exhausting. i have done it on many occasions. and youre right, "There's no lack of options shared here".  |
Then you choose Door No. 1 (Live with the fact that she's just not that sexual.)
That is the correct decision for you and I won't disuade you.
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I've been with my current GF for 4 years. She's insatiable. She can intecourse me under the table and I've always taken great pride in my abilities in the bedroom. She never says no, she loves giving oral to completion (and you know where I complete). She's into porno, BDSM, 3'somes, you name it. She's tall, blonde, university educated, confident, with natural DD's and very firm. If you would meet her, you'd never suspect it - she works in a very conservative industry and wears the suits to work (sometimes with no panties.)
After a weekend with her, I'm ruined for 2 or 3 days.
Cheat on her?
Not possible, I'm too exhausted from keeping up with her.
Do I have it good? I sure do. But to be honest, the last woman I was with was pretty much the same. I've never had much patience and understanding for a woman who wasn't naturally sexual. Oh sure, I've met them in the past, but I dump them in no short order before I get in too deep. I just figure that there are too many naturally lusty women out there to waste my time and energy on one who keeps a dime between her knees at all times. Life is too short.
BTW, the reverse arguement applies. If a woman is with a man who is a dud in the bedroom, and she's naturally lustful - dump his ass now.