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Originally Posted by hulk
Her reason was she does everything for me but jesus I was nearly killed by cancer and have been working again for a month after a six months of treatment that royally fucked me up and another six of recovery.
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First, I'm sorry that you're having to deal with this in the midst of treatment. As if you didn't have enough to deal with.
Hopefully, you're making progress?
Secondly, I think you may feel differently once your brain processes what's happened. You're in shock.
There are some couple that are able to make it through this, but it takes a lot of work, effort and mutual love. I've only met one couple who've successfully done it, but their story was a little different.
Give yourself some time to process this. If the two of you can talk openly there's a chance you may be able to get through it.
I think TFP in general doesn't like to see other TFPers getting stomped on and taken advantage of so if you need moral support, no matter what your views after you've considered everything, we're always just a click away.