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Originally Posted by dlish
ha! you have no idea do you...
that's a massive generalisation about asian girls. what do you consider asian? asia spans all the way to the doors of africa. surely you didnt mean that all these girls from the far east all the way to saudi 'pretend to be timid but just love to fuck'. surely.
as for assimilation, are you implying that as a way to assimilate they just want to fuck and be treated like sluts?
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What do you really think?
In this case, I refer Asian to Koreans (since that is what she is). Generally speaking, it is very difficult for individuals with conservative roots to blend with individuals with liberal roots, the same way it is very difficult for individuals from collectivist societies to blend in with individuals from individualist societies.
Not using porn as an example but look at how Asian girls (Koreans, Chinese, Japanese, etc.) portray themselves in pornography. Even she says they are prudish and seem to not be willing to conform (she claims to be just the opposite and takes pride in that).
No, I am not implying that assimilation = fucking and being called a slut. But I can assure you that she feels really tingly deep down inside when she sits at the dinner table and her parents look at her and think she is this angel deep down inside... She always talks about just that which makes me think she gets a kinky satisfaction out of it (which to me is a satisfaction caused by a sense of rebellion). At that point, she has already assimilated outside of her culture and if it's sex that helps her get to that point, then, all the power to her I guess. I hope this answers your question, to a certain extent. No, I don't think fucking, sucking, gagging and deepthroating are the ultimate and only ways to assimilate
. I guess for some, there aren't many alternatives after all which is pretty sad.
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Originally Posted by Seaver
Sexuality should be explored and encouraged, but with a definite level of maturity beyond discussing "double-bagging" a girl after 2 partners.
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Read the thread carefully. I wasn't the one who suggested it. I'm still the guy not wanting to believe that this girl is a whore/slut/skank/trash...
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Originally Posted by gooder
Two young adults with not much experience. I get that. It is a shame she has to dissassociate herself so far from her real norm in order to do new and nasty things. She sounds like one very determined young lady. In another time her manuals would have been Alex Comfort's books on sex and lovemaking. She would be enjoying herself and pleasing you much more. Now it is porn for a guide, gagging, and so on. I doubt that she is really enjoying herself very much. I suspect she would really rather be having the real pleasure she seeks but just does not know how to get there outside of the traditional roles that have ruled her life since birth. This sounds like it is between her and her not you and her. But what do I know? If it was possible and I were in your shoes I would take over in a different way aiming towards genuine escalating mutual pleasure without all the porn dramatics. The regular nuts and bolts good sex can be an ongoing great experience that will develop its own special enjoyments as you go along. I figure you have this in mind already and are sort of manipulating for someone to say just what I am saying for some God knows what the fuck reason.
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