There are always deep-seated psychological issues at play in dom/sub scenarios. Even though a person may not be totally aware of them at the time. It is, in itself, a deep-seated psychological issue.
I am not assuming that this girl is damaged. But I think considering that she might be is a healthier and more considerate way to approach this than assuming she is not. After all, *we* don't know anything about it other than a couple of paragraphs. I wouldn't want to give anyone the impression that this is always a happy playtime scenario because, if you are talking about the real world, a significant percentage of times that is not going to be the case.
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