I think KirStang summed up my thoughts.
I have been in the guy side of this. My ex broke up with me after a couple of years(still not really sure why). She wanted to continue to be friends. This evolved into a booty call arrangement for a while(we were not seeing anyone else), but we eventually had to end it. I stopped seeing her. I did not talk to her for a year. It was hard but we were both better off in the long run. Break it clean. Do not be friends. Unfriend on facebook. Lose his number. Delete your emails. Burn everything associated with him. It is like quitting a bad habbit. Rid yourself of any and all temptations.
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