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Originally Posted by chelle21689
I can tell we're still sad about the relationship ending...I don't know why he's sad when he broke up with me.
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Nutshell. Of course it's difficult to let go of something that was good. He's sad because he probably doesn't have anyone else yet, and/or maybe it does hurt. You're still grieving the relationship. It's natural to feel sadness, but it's normal.
Hanging on to strands of a torn relationship will never allow you to finish grieving and move on. Roller coaster breakups just make things harder, so contact is not a good idea. There will be underlying false hope until you're both emotionally ready to let go. Once you do that, you'll both be able to move on.