Anon you can absolutely treat someone with respect and dignity AND be sexually satisfied in a relationship at the same time. It is a combination of good sexual compatability and then the ability to compromise as neccessary so both parties are fulfilled.
If she doesn't want to be your source of sexual release at the same levels as you feel you need them, she should haven't to. What she would do, as a compromising partner, is give her blessing to an alternate form of sexual release like masterbation.
If that's not something you can both work out together, then really it comes down to whether you are going to have to go outside what she's comfortable with in order to meet your sexual needs within the relationship, or are you better off ending it altogether.
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