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Dude it is hard. Its hard because this is a beautiful woman with a great figure and she drives me crazy with it. Its been a loooong time since ive been with such a hot woman. The sex itself is ok, not great. I tried to get her into some light bdsm (her hitting me) but she thought I was training her or using her I think. We are both adults who have been married before, me once her twice. Yeah we've talked about it. She was the one who brought it up, saying she see's this (my high sex drive, her low sex drive) as a big difference between us and explaining it just wasn't how she was raised. I usually pay for things when we go out, but whenever she says she wants to pay she does, its no problem.
We've been together about 6 months, don't live together. We just went on vacation together, flew down to florida and had a good time sightseeing, although for the first couple of days, no sex. I seem to be trying to prove to her I don't just like her for sex (because I have a feeling guys have treated her this way in the past) I will ignore it when she says she's on her period for example (why does she have to tell me?), or I will just show up at her place with flowers and we will play cards or go out or watch tv, no sex. I have a feeling she wants to get married, but is playing it cool. She's been in physically abusive relationships, she's from another country fairly recently, speaks 2 languages. Potentially shady history, Im thinking her first husband may have been into crime somehow, mafia, etc.
I want this relationship to work, at least for a while, for a few reasons.
Avoiding Temptation.
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