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Sounds like an independence issue. You want to be able to find a job, make money, be independent, whereas (from what I see) it seems like he's offering to 'take care of you' of sorts and doesn't mind 'providing' for you.
I think if finding a job and remaining independent is important to you, it should be made clear to him. You should let him know that you really love him and care about him and all that, but being financially independent is important to you.
Like others have said, if you need to be in the area to find a job, maybe he can come visit you?
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