I hear a long distance relationship that is getting difficult to manage. Have you discussed next steps? What-ifs about where it's going? I think that is the 'elephant in the room' which should make things less stressful once resolved.
Clearly there has to be an end-point to the long-distance situation. Is he away because he works across the country? Is he at school? In the first case there needs to be a decision about what to do i.e. one of you needs to relocate or you need to decide on pursuing the relationship. In the second case, you two need to plan your visits realistically. I don't think that you are being unreasonable, and he maybe upsetting you to calm his desire to see you. With schooling there is a definite end-point and he will most likely move back after. You should plan for this and try not to spend money needlessly.
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