I don't have a husband at the moment, but the doctor visit would be the way to go.
Does he respond to your attempts to get "it" to match? If not, he can still take care of you, or at least help you take care of you. Come to think of it, when we were in our 30s, my ex did have a brief time of a similar experience. This was the time he realized how much it got him off to watch my body respond to him and became more absorbed in my experience than his. I don't know all the specific on your situation, but it never hurts to experiment.
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