Wow, I guess I'm old fashioned compared to most similarly aged folks here. My husband and I have a joint account and it's our money. I currently make more than my husband, but he's made more than me in the past. Even when we lived together prior to marriage we pooled our money - the only time I've ever had a down the middle division of expenses is when I lived with roommates. I'm also not a secret spender. We discuss big purchases when we make them. If I need a new pair of shoes, I just get them. We're not frivolous people.
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