The surest way to screw up a close relationship (family/friend/significant other) is to lend them money. It will ALWAYS end up badly (well, there are RARE exceptions). There's almost no way to avoid resentment.
DO NOT lend money to friends/family/SO's that you cannot afford to give them.
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The secret to great marksmanship is deciding what the target was AFTER you've shot.
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