In the past, I have been in both types of relationships. The guy I dated before my ex-husband made me feel that I could not do anything without his permission, which then made me feel I *needed* to be with him. Then there was my ex-husband who was like a child and needed me to take care of him, the house and the kids. Now, I find myself wanting something in the middle. I want someone who appreciates my independence and can also do things on his own . This person would enjoy doing things
with me, not necessarily
for me. I do not know if I am explaining it right. I want an equal partner. (which I may have actually found
)