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Originally Posted by Manic_Skafe
I call bullshit on pretty much everything John$ posted above and it grosses me out to think of how many dudes have to grapple with that sort of thinking on a regular basis. Men and women do communicate differently but thinking you have some right to hold your partner accountable for perceiving something you can't open up your mouth and express is just plain retarded.
Not sure if it was intended to but this hardly addresses what I posted above.
Good luck to you, Vig.
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Great post!
Vig, sound like you are describing my relationship of 13 years. Me 35, her 34. I understand you 100%. I wish I could give you a solution. This month I finaly gave up and told her its over. She always told me give me time, take it slow, be understanding. After a while she stooped even saying that and started blaming me! I do watch porn, not ashamed about it, and she used the 'porn' argument. I guess she read that issue of cosmo, blame a guy when you are shi$#ty lay.
We are compatible everywhere but sex (money/ed/likes/humor and on and on). She does by some standards quite a lot ..... Sorry let me ref-raze that she let me do these things TO HER. Her first answer was always NO, and if I insisted she went along, otherwise missionary 100% of the time. But I love her and you want the other person to want to do things with you, you want the woman in your life to please you as much as you want to please her. Just doing is like that run of the mill cheap porn scene. I came to realization that she needs very little in therms of sex to be satisfied , unfortunate thing is she uses that same standard to measure my satisfaction. She had great potential but I was unable to get her out of her shell. Every time she made a small step forward it was followed by 2 steps back.
Before some people attack me let me give you some examples: first bj I got from her (21 at the time) I had to put a blanket over a night stand lamp and close all shades/blinds. It was dark outside and she made it so dark inside I did not even see her. Example#2, in 13 years she purchased only 1 outfit, a corset with stalking that she put on maybe 5 times if that. I can go on and on.
Great body very slim, great boobs amazing hips, what a waste....