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Have a gentleman's agreement about owed money, but be willing to kiss it goodbye. Don't let someone else's money problems strangle your life.
You will find that it is the hardest thing to do something deliberately that you know will upset the female you co-habit with. Get used to it. Eventually you will find that you can do things that please you or that are important to you without running them through the BS factory known as "what about her?". I mean really, it seems like there is more habit than love here. More momentum than true caring. In a true relationship this games stuff just doesn't exist. Really. It is juvenile BS that you ought to let go. Your life is passing by. Trust me in this. I was where you are for a long time, 4 kids, shared house and family and the whole 9 yards. But the toxic crap poisons everything.
Change course, man. Let it go.
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And now to disengage the clutch of the forebrain ... 
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