The funny thing is that sometimes people just stick around long past the shelf life of a relationship because its just easier. I've done it before, I get comfortable and having to go through all the trouble of explaining shit and moving just isn't worth the time or energy, you've got a good thing going. The problem is you can't have your cake and eat it too, I didn't want to cheat but at the same time the thought of spending even another second with her made me want to vomit, eventually it ends but there is a transition where you just kind of resent having her around (I've never treated anybody like what the OP describes though...usually I just find any excuse I can to not come home). I wonder if some of that isn't going on here?
Maybe she's ready to move on but for what ever reason is just riding it out and taking her growing frustration with her life out on you. Has she always been like this or was it a slow build from fun, happy girlfriend to a hissing, spitting she demon?
Anyway I don't really know, just throwing it out there.
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