He told me to have self discipline and he told me he had no sympathy for how sad I felt because I brought it upon myself and that I should've had more control. I did give him my passwords before but he never cared to look at it. I even told him maybe I should have him look through my stuff and nitpick each message from a guy or whatever but he didn't want to. I think this is almost as bad as cheating (betraying trust) to him but it's really hard for me to see why it's wrong and I'm trying to see.
Back then when I had the pw to his Myspace he would have me check his messages for him or pic comments. I'm going to see OTHER messages on display, and it'd be hard for me to not click when the subject seems a bit inappropriate. That's his fault also.
Oh, and right after we had this huge cell phone argument, he wanted me to go back online and pay his bill if he changed his password again! So he didn't learn his lesson the first time too (unless he tried testing me again). I told him that I don't want to pay his bill online for him if I have the password cuz like I said I WILL SNOOP. Haha, on my defense...when he was here I had the opportunity to look through his phone and Facebook but I didn't.
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