Well it seems like all the above posters all say that you should just move on, but there are 2 sides.
You can listen to the above, and think about what will happen when you two finally reunite in 2 years or something. Think about what if the time apart actually made you two drift away from each other. Then you'll be regretting that you wasted 2 years waiting on someone who was actually not meant for you.
Then theres the other side where your heart says that he's the one and you'll love him forever and that you two will get married in some odd number of years.
I hate this feeling, its alot easier for a random person to tell you to break up with him than it is for you to actually do it. But you really cant let your heart talk louder than your brain. You gotta have 50/50 harmony and let logic come into play as well. You are young, 21 is a good number, and especially since you're going to go back to school, you're going to be exposed to guys your age who are also pursuing the same path as you are! You'll have more in common, more things to talk about, and more opportunities to meet someone that will be able to stick with you.
Think about it using your head as well as your heart. And its true what plan9 said, its not going to be hard to replace the sex. haha
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