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I actually tried to ignore the fact the OP has only posted twice in here for the fact that he may be going through something quite demanding at this point in his life, so I left a little reminder note to ease him back into this (now tug-of-war-like) discussion.

Also, I think it may be be as simple as The_Jazz put it, trying to re-address soma and give him some basic guidelines in order to not freak out.

I'm not really interested into getting into the concerns of babies and their implications toward quality of life, and what constitutes the best decision according to *expert's hand raised here, because it isn't warranted. Of course this has morphed into a discussion piece because of differing and vocal viewpoints raised by others, and then contended by those subsequent, but I just leap-frogged you all, and tried to do what The_Jazz did, only just a tad bit late (I'm always late - why, oh, why, am I always so late?).

It'd be really funny if, in the end, your girlfriend ended up being "late" as well, soma (we laugh to keep us from crying, or so I hear).

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